CDC Bot’s marriage system lets users propose to each other and get married within the server. Marriages are purely for fun and come with optional polyamorous support for group marriages, plus a cheating detection system that notifies partners when their spouse interacts with someone outside the marriage.Documentation Index
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Proposing
Use/marriages propose @user to send a marriage proposal. The recipient sees a message with two reaction options:
- 💍 — Accept the proposal
- ⛔ — Reject the proposal
Proposal rules
CDC Bot enforces the following rules before allowing a proposal:- You cannot propose to yourself
- You cannot propose to a bot
- You cannot have two active proposals pending at the same time
- The recipient must not have disabled proposals (see
/config) - If either party is already married and not polyamorous, the proposal is blocked
- If you propose while already married (and your partner is not polyamorous), it is recorded as a cheating attempt and your partner is notified
Polyamorous mode
Enable Polyamorous mode in/config to join or expand group marriages. All members of a marriage must have polyamorous mode enabled for additional members to join.
When polyamorous mode is active:
- A married user can propose to (or accept a proposal from) additional users
- New members join the existing marriage rather than creating a separate one
- Cheating alerts behave differently — see below
Cheating detection
CDC Bot monitors messages in married users and notifies partners when:- A married user mentions someone outside the marriage
- A married user replies to a message from someone outside the marriage
- A married user reacts to a message from someone outside the marriage
- A married user proposes to someone outside the marriage
Cheating detection is designed for fun. It triggers on any mention or reply to a non-partner, including casual conversation. Use the Defer Cheating Alerts preference to receive a daily summary instead of real-time alerts.
Deferring alerts
Enable Defer Cheating Alerts in/config to stop real-time cheating DMs. Instead, you receive a daily summary with total cheating incidents and a bad relationship score (0–5). You can also request the latest stats at any time with /marriages request_cheating_stats.
Divorcing
Use/marriages divorce with an optional reason to leave a marriage. Your ex-partner receives a DM with the reason. If a marriage has more than two members, you leave the group without dissolving it.
Viewing marriages
Use/marriages view to see all active marriages in the server. The response is private (ephemeral) and shows each marriage as a list of mentioned users connected by 💍.